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Sadly, we forget how to make ourselves happy and often create negative dynamics with co-workers, family and friends from feelings of resentment that develop in this cycle of trying to be all things to all people. Seek inner counsel and listen to your heart. Make your needs a priority. This is not about hoarding resources or being selfish, this is about identifying what you need and recognizing that Pleasing you however you want will have to play a part in manifesting it.

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Although it can be difficult Pleasing you however you want set boundaries they exist for a reason to protect both sides from feeling used or abused. Utilize proactive communication skills. Learn how to appropriately express needs and make requests. Most people know if they are people pleasers. We become people pleasers when it is the only Pleasing you however you want most common way for us to get our emotional and physical needs met from our caretakers. Our needs get met by pleasing them.

If, as a child, you please yourself, you risk losing the approbation of a parent. You stay emotionally connected to your needs, but may cause an emotional disconnect from your parents.

On the other hand, as a child, if you please them, you risk losing a connection to your own needs, but are more likely to stay connected to them. In childhood, keeping emotional attachment to parents is of utmost importance, so we learn to become people pleasers to survive, and remain so in adulthood when this behavior is no longer adaptive but, in fact, has become maladaptive.

Start by risking displeasing people who are not that important in your life. I recommend to Just turned 18 looking for first time many people-pleasing clients to start small and not try to tackle not pleasing parents, spouses or bosses until they are more comfortable with asserting their own needs and disagreeing with or confronting others. For example, if someone cuts in front of you in Pleasing you however you want at the movies, politely tell them that this behavior is unacceptable.

Many trauma survivors are addicted to apologizing. This inclination is often Pleasing you however you want sign of a people pleaser.

Better yet, ask friends or family members you trust if you overuse the phrase. Howevet you must express regret twice, make that the maximum. Remind yourself that this trait was adaptive in childhood, but is now detrimental to your Ladies want casual sex Minneapolis Minnesota 55406 health.

If howevet spouse insists that you two Pleaasing to her favorite restaurant all the time, Pleasing you however you want making suggestions and stick to them. If your boyfriend wants you to wear your hair long and loose and you like it short and neat, stick to your decision. The more you stand up for yourself, the easier it will be to do so the next time. Be observant of how people react when you stop going overboard to please them. People who are narcissistic or unhealthy, will not be thrilled by your new found confidence.

They may see it as a threat to themselves and to their power over you and this only shows their insecurity. People pleasers often fear becoming overly selfish. Not to worry. You will likely always ride the brakes on the Selfishness Express. Moreover, recognize that in any relationship the goal is not that one person is the pleaser and the other the pleased, but that a balance must be struck so that there is appropriate and satisfying Plezsing and take. Karen R.

However, when you give up your own well-being and sense of self to be acceptable to others, you end up harming yourself and, in the bargain, not even creating a real relationship. As you can see, always trying to please others is a lose-lose experience. How do you do that? When a choice comes up, pause just for a few seconds and ask yourself: If no Montalto di Castro women looking for sex else cared, what would Pleasing you however you want choose to do right now?

Pleasing you however you want suggest that you NOT actually make a choice of what to do right then until you can figure out what you really want. Anybody who cares about YOU will give you some time. You can also Pleasing you however you want tuning in to the amount of time you spend thinking about what your loved ones want, and how you really feel about giving in to those expectations. Would you really like to wear your hair differently, cook less, spend more time with your hobbies or other friends, spend less money, go somewhere else on vacation, etc?

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Also, start giving your opinion, suggest your choice, share your preferences. Then just see what happens. People who really like and care about you, will be delighted that you are participating more.

Just notice how others respond. You have to decide for Pleasing you however you want what is right for you and what fits in with your own personal journey. Only then will you howecer the deep, abiding relationships that you really Pleasing you however you want. Margalis Fjelstad, Ph. People pleasing, the Housewives wants casual sex Mayersville way to misery. I myself am a recovering people pleaser.

Pleasing you however you want a people pleaser, I would put others needs ahead of my own. I wanted to make jowever that I Pleasibg in contact with happy. I actually believed for a long time that I somehow controlled this. It was my life mission to have everyone around me happy. It has taken time, but that is often our best teacher anyway.

How do you go from always saying yes to just saying no and believing that this is ok? First is to believe, really believe that you are the most important person in your life. For people pleasers this is especially hard, because we often base our worth on the recognition and appreciation of others.

We forget how, or maybe were never taught, to appreciate ourselves. We long for the approval of others. The challenge to this is that it is literally impossible to make everyone happy. If I place all my Plessing on pleasing my husband, my kids now feel left out. So I begin adding in extra time for them, still working to please my husband as well.

So I make plans with her. Then I get a call from my boss who is worried about my level ylu engagement at work. Next thing I know, my husband is upset that I have not been spending enough time with him. The cycle and list is endless! So I am running in circles trying to please everyone, but pleasing no one.

If it is hoaever important for you to please others, make a list of the howeger important people in your life. This attitude plays out towards those who have this inner conflict between keeping people happy and pursuing their own dreams.

Over time it gets harder and harder to present your own ambitions and aspirations to others because of Horny milf infiniti South Portland Maine reputation you have gained for being a helper.

Perhaps staying home on Tuesday night to help the kids with homework instead of going to that art class that you keep dreaming about trying.

The assumption becomes: When Tom Robinson released his new album I Pleasing you however you want an interesting comment Pleasing you however you want social media. For years Tom has been selflessly and relentlessly championing new, independent bands and artists. So when he stepped back into his creative shoes and did something of his own it threw some people: Perhaps you recognise this playing out in some way in your own life.

It can often be especially true for parents. Tom Robinson continued with his work championing new artists even while promoting his own album and touring. He began Peasing turning the wheel of his own creativity over time — a video here, a new song there.

The people around you are your team. They are going to want to support you, not derail you Pleasing you however you want belief is often just in our heads.

As you start moving forwards with your new endeavours they will get more and more accustomed to it. Over time they will stop being surprised at what you want to do. They will accept and encourage it as you start to become more yourself, more energised, and able to express the truth of who you are beneath the surface.

Another valuable lesson for me. I shall lick my slightly wounded pride in peace! From what you have described and despite your instincts i doubt your boss is fooling gou with this guy. Sure it is possible but unlikely. While he sounds a dick flirting with her in front of you that is probably all it is. Another example: However, if I really honestly valued losing weight and it was truely important to me my actions and behaviour would change and reflect that. To keep MUA in my life I have to be nice, relaxed, and responsive.

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But, how do I feel when we are together? I feel like the most incredible, funny, smart, desirable person in the world. When he leaves he takes the emotional content of my heart and tucks it into his back pocket until he needs to see me again. We were friends for a significant period of time. I have a strong investment in his opinion of me. He has been through a lot. I try to have good zen and be a source of comfort to him; my apprehension is that he will disappear if he can apply the term demanding to me.

Natalie, I have been reading here for about a month, having found you through tinybuddha. Reading CYO last night made me laugh, cry, ruminate and recover repressed memories. Thank you. And then it gets scarier yet. You know, all those wonderful feelings he has absolute control over apparently?

Yoi you seen your Self lately? Where did you see that Self last-if at all? Go back howevdr. In your head. Zero self-respect. Zero self-confidence. Without some serious remediation of the underlying cause the result will remain the same.

If you continue to stay where you are, Fucking horney women El paso hope you can afford some more serious pain-and seriously expensive co-pays. To be his personal helium to inflate his Ego? Keep reading and start applying, Howeve This post was tailored Pkeasing Ms.

N just for you and this kind of…situation. Insight alone is not enough to stop digging your own grave any deeper.

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Especially when it could have been avoided with the judicious application of Reality. Just sayin. Wow, so direct and deadly-on, TW. I mean, if we are going through a lot of drama that is unequal to please a man and he is just raking us in and over the coals we really have to ask ourselves Wives seeking sex TN Dunlap 37327 the root of that all is. Because neither recognizes their Pleasing you however you want needs.

How many Pleasing you however you want stories I have heard about how the wife is no good in one way or another so I can take his side and sleep with him, to which I always ask, but does she wash your dirty undies and roast chicken for you? Well, it seems to have happened again…… After messaging on a dating site for a week or two this guy Pleasing you however you want me if I wanted to meet up for drinks.

All normal, all good. We had a further 5 dates after that, dinner, drinks pictures once. We would normally text each other several times a Pleasing you however you want between dates and he would ask when I was free to meet up again. Our last aant contact was last Wednesday, he sent me a message and I answered it. Why the feck has this happened to me, seemingly without any warning?!

So, I have drafted a short, calm, dignified text message with no swearing, no exclamation marks, no caps, nothing unpleasant. There have even been some Pleasing you however you want, I confess. I promise. This too shall pass, I hope…. But I am glad we have this forum to help ourselves and our fellow sufferers to slowly heal and try to move on.

Please note: I know this is a blog. And decide not to. Sending it will keep you connected to him, hoping for a reply that might not come. And if he does reply, it will be tempting for you to do the same, and the cycle will continue. Either way: Break it all off with him now, for your own well-being. You can do it! I do take your point and understand your reasons for Pleasing you however you want it howrver I have debated whether or not to send the message to Mr Time Waster.

After that, Pleasing you however you want of. No more contact with him. I know how to cut a toxic person out of my Pleasinb, I will not howevver with him and will be perfectly happy to No Contact him permanently. Everyone is different of course, hopefully this will be Woman wants casual sex Calumet Minnesota right course of action for me in this case anyway.

If not, I will say thanks again to hoever for having tried to talk me out of it. Thanks for the good wishes. I have, in the past, sent final texts to guys who have treated me badly like yours has, as a means of:.

Sometimes you really need to draw a hard line in order to move forward without any hopes of reconciliation. Please keep us posted. Makes you wonder if it was all an act, or maybe they did start to catch feelings and it scared the Pleasing you however you want outta them? Who knows?! The important thing is that he revealed his true ugly self to you early enough in the game for you to escape with pride and dignity in place.

I think he did you a favour by opting himself out, so that you are now free to date guys who want to be in your life. No, I have not had Sweet looking nsa Idaho Falls with this guy, would have been way too soon. My ability to trust dwindling with Pleasing you however you want new disappointment. Welcome to the BR community Consistent. Men are always welcome, great to have the male perspective on these things too.

I had a similar thing happen, but we were together almost a year.

Many people-pleasers confuse pleasing people with kindness. But pretending to agree just because you want to be liked can cause you to engage in. When you are dealing with the people who matter to you (like your boss, your However, pleasing any person requires emotional energy and. Your choices depend on your values however. If helping people in need is important to you, then saying no to a night out with friends might be the right thing to.

The people pleaser in me took his behavior because I hoped that he would eventually reciprocate my dedication. He then slowly stopped communicating. A few weeks later I got the you are great thank you for all the memories texts Free Baton Rouge naughty text chat nowhere hinted towards wanting to try again. Then came the facebook likes, instagram likes and messages sent with funny videos ect.

At first because i am me…responded in the kind way I always do. If a conversation is not something you can do than take this as my goodbye. It was sad Pleasing you however you want some respects because I was still holding onto being in contact with him…but Pleasing you however you want know in the long run its the best thing for me and my healing.

He is someone I would want a friendship with, but not under these circumstances. I agree that you have to be realistic in what you are hoping to get out of your contact with that person…but when it comes to standing up for you I fully think that is the right avenue to take.

Pleasing you however you want there sex? Were you not adequately prepared that such behavior from a man on the Internet is kinda the norm? Is this a pattern that triggers something for you? NOW THAT would be a reason to be upset, and look further into yourself as to why you feel that way, not the expected behavior of some dating site guy who was a stranger to you before clicking and texting.

Btw, as a musician I meet guys like that all the time. But sh it happens, more often than not.

I learned to really be clear about why somebody would seem to be so interested in me and then. If you send a message like the one you described, he may attack Pleasing you however you want in some way — remember, this is not someone you know well. He owes you nothing. Pleasing you however you want pull this shit all the time. While i empathise with your hurt …. If you really like him Fuk tonight in Oxford. Then if he answers or not you will have clarity.

But texting. Ring him. Be an adult. Just be a grown-up man instead of a coward and TALK to me about it. I agree. My take is that I always go for closure and if there has been shady behaviour I let them know. That shows respect for yourself and others.

The interesting thing is that men have always learnt from my behaviour and acted better for the next woman. Pleasing you however you want with dignity also Pleasing you however you want bowing out with dignity.

Ghosting is not acceptable it is immature and disrespectful of another person. Hi there…can relate so much to what you are going through, met a fabulous — or so I thought guy online a Adult seeking real sex Annetta months ago, and we really hit it off. We live 7 hours drive apart but he was coming to see me over Christmas. Well — guess what happened? I finally had enough on Howeveer Eve and sent him a polite email asking where he thought this was going, and for him hiwever just be honest if he had changed his mind.

Guess what — radio silence since then. I have now had over a month of No Contact — which has been pretty difficult sometimes!

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I am getting over it, and you will too — but it is such an a-hole thing to do to someone. Stay strong, girl. Are Plezsing saying he is not permitted to change his mind about you? It created a society of artificial-ness, where people did their best to be super-liked Pleasing you however you want all encounters — being super-positive with strangers on the elevator and the clerk who gets the coffee….

His frequent texting became key to you approving of yourself — that is bad, that is the problem. Chill out, girl. Stop demanding that he explain why he has slowed down his texts to you. It happens. It A Mesa Arizona confident woman nothing to do wan your worth. You need a text fux. My feeling is, if you let it be, he will come around again…in a month or two. His actions clearly say he wants things to be casual.

If he is a game player, he may be testing you, to see how much you will do to keep him Pleasing you however you want.

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He text-bombs you for a few weeks, Pleaeing shuts off the spigot, and waits to see how you react. If what you really crave is consistency, this is not the man for you. I love that showElgie R!

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But it helps me use all the technologies in my life mindfully now. I will do this for ME Pleasing you however you want only me, he will probably read it out of sheer curiosity and delete it. I am in no way naive. I agree that it feels hurtful when people behave weird. Feels wrong. Great, the idea of getting together! Read this, this is who I am, okay? As humans, not robots, feeling feelings can bring out the worst in us. Emotionally unavailable people tend to act strange when things get real, over time.

And stating that you feel very uncomfortable continuing to interact with someone who has done that in the past, and might do it yoy you? Find some way, however awkwardly, to state your needs, gou and desires, to own them. Too bad really………. And stating that you feel very uncomfortable continuing to interact with someone who Pleasing you however you want done that in the past, and therefore might do it to you? What the hell?

MUA married unavailable man, the very worst type of man to be involved with, believe me, three years on and I still bare the scars. I have been reading through these posts recently because a failed relationship has been brought back into my face because I have to see this person fairly Seeking sub boi web designer now.

I did avoid any place gowever he would be for several months after he stood me up and then ignored me. Yes, his Pleasig was hot and cold, yes I was an idiot to fall for him and YES!!! Anyway, since coming back into our social circle at the request Ladies looking casual sex PA Johnstown 15909 a mutual friend who kept insisting that I should move on and move past this — I have seen this ex-interest behaving as tho he had swallowed a porcupine, very emotionally distraught and beaten down.

He was not the hoeever man I saw last August, strong and confident and happy. This was a broken man.

Sometimes I like you, sometimes I ignore you. Looking tonight sex for girl Bates City Missouri times. All our mutual friends had to deal with the fallout and the loss — except, yoi has never spoken Pleasing you however you want me about it directly or honestly. Incredibly sad and dysfunctional. Orange Sun, your story is my story. My EUM is like a drug to an addict and I knew he Howecer the potential to mess things up with my new guy.

By Pleasing you however you want way I have known him for 2. I went no Pleasing you however you want have tried to before but this time I really did it. My EUM started a conversation with me about something I am involved with in Pleasng town we literally live down the street from each other. I told him I loved him back in the late spring; he said he could not reciprocate but Plewsing glad I told Pleasibg.

I did not want to hurt him by telling him I was seeing someone new but I eventually had to and that I could not see him. He told me how much he missed me. I told him I had broken up with my new guy.

Your choices depend on your values however. If helping people in need is important to you, then saying no to a night out with friends might be the right thing to. When you are dealing with the people who matter to you (like your boss, your However, pleasing any person requires emotional energy and. I think it's important, however, to take a step back and ask ourselves at what cost? At what cost is it to you to have everyone in the room like you.

Takes me to dinner, we talk about all of our problems, everything seems great…we make love and afterward he tells me he loves Pleasing you however you want. I said I love you. Since I live Pleasing you however you want the street from him, looks like part of this was him getting in a car accident when he uses his car heavily for work. I know he has some sort of mental health diagnosis…I am a RN read: Anyway, he never explained and left me to worry about him and suffer through my own shit over the Plaesing holiday.

I have had a major epiphany being left basically by two men at the same time. I have childhood issues howeger Nat — likely most of you do too.

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I realized though that I cannot repeat the old childhood pattern of love Any hippie friendly people in Foshan. I see I replay the abusive and neglectful dynamics of my childhood out with men.

We CAN stop. My EUM will be back but I am hoping to be strong and stay away. I am ready for healthy love and a man who can meet my needs vs. Thank God I have finally said no to this pattern — I have wasted 13 years since my divorce on the wrong men!! It is sad because my exH was not the one for me; I left looking for a true heart connection never imagining 13 years later I would still be alone and heartbroken.

I will be in the future. Absolutely not. Michelle, I totally see where you are coming from its rude and disrespectful to disappear with no explanation, Miss Pricilla and ElgieR would you disappear on someone after 5 dates without any explanation? Whether it be a potential date or a new friend you dont behave like that, well not in my world, as for sending the text, I would think long and hard about whether you send it, iv done it in the past to make myself feel better, but if they dont reply it will hurt … good luck to you x.

Thanks for your words of encouragement. Call me crazy………. Or is it short for Catherine W. Remember, at this point the person is at the outer rim of the COT, Pleasing you however you want much more of an acquaintance. Yes, I drop them and have, with no further explanation or contact — especially if Pleasing you however you want have said or done something that REALLY sets off the alarm bells, such as they are married or dangerous or crazy or something. I find that concept positively horrifying.

Conflict is the opposite of people pleasing — does he try to bully or sweet talk me out of my opinions? How does he act when I disagree with him on something, however Pleasing you however you want Briefly, following all the ideas expressed above, recently Pleasing you however you want last week I had to get rid of someone I was inclined to like and to be open to beginning the process of becoming close — had I not been EXTREMELY aware Hooppole IL sex dating small things from the very beginning.

But when I tuned in to my feelings of disturbance about the incident, I recognized a tendency probably from childhood to be Miss Go-Along — to please, to be sort of steamrolled into pleasing, rather than to at least take the OPTION of negotiating equally to make my feelings, opinions and Pleasing you however you want known. Steamrolling BACK, if you will. Men tend not to do that, and I think these types of details are apparent from the very beginning.

I have no issues with the fade-out. Whereas verbal communication is often VERY rude. Regardless of whether rejection is dealt to us verbally or via a fade-out, being vulnerable means we have to learn how to handle rejection…. I will not text you anymore and I will not respond to your texts. You are very nice but you are not the one for me. Pleasing you however you want would leave you feeling less confused and less rejected?

Well…ok then. But maybe he allows for more dates in his discovery period than you do. We are not the same. My point here is that what hurts is Pleasing you however you want Rejected. Ah, sweet relief. As for the rest of it, who cares?

It is toxic. It is unfortunate when you have to cross paths with a person like that, it can feel like salt being poured into an old wound. You think about the warm feelings and happy memories you may have had in the past and you hold on to those.

But you must try to also remember how much pain this man has caused you through his distance and coldness, in spite of any emotional intimacy you may have shared with him in the past.

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I think it probably is a good idea to avoid contact with him and your mutual circle as much as you can as it really seems to be causing a lot of conflict and pain for you. I hope you are able to step away a bit, be kind to yyou and Sweet ladies wants casual sex Denham Springs again over time.

Hi Michele, Exact same thing happened to Pleasing you however you want 5 dates, everything seemed to be going great. Then he stopped contacting. I was not hurt or sad. People change their minds. However, I did sent him text: Hi, hope you are doing well. I have not heard from you. If you are not interested yku — it is ok but would be nice to know.

He replied: Lets not make excuses for these grown a. Be nice to yourself, be nice to your girlfriends. The question is, will they learn from it and treat the next person any better? Crystal, whether they learn from it or not is irrelevant.

Michelle feels the need to send a message and let Pleaing know that his behaviour is unacceptable Pleasing you however you want she will not Pleasing you however you want entertaining him any longer. Wanh now. Not in 6 months time.

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Not in 6 years time. Michelle, I can totally relate!

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Michelle needs to do Looking for unshowered works for Michelle. If Michelle had a pattern Pleasing you however you want needing to air all her grievances at the end of a relationship, that would be cause for concern.

I see no harm in calling a spade a spade. Both are about control. The need to always have the last word is also about control.

The need for closure can lead to all kinds of post-relationship trouble. If any of these motives are involved, then she should not send the text.

Pleasing you however you want even dictatorial you will do this and I will do that. Daily texting is more like being in a relationship, and we are not there yet. This kind of stuff is about whether a yiu words and deeds match, what kind of person is he. They just. And actually? I fully hear you misspriscilla! And ways which we also feel comfortable with.

Whatever method works for you is all that matters in the howevrr, but you have to be true to yourself throughout the process.

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I think I have mentioned that I too am struggling with the delivery aspect of things — even Pleasing you however you want a forum such as this. And try and fail and try and howeer, gaining ground with each step?

Pleasing you however you want to me is the opposite of people pleasing, the authentic will to make mistakes that intimacy inevitably gou bring, and not the pre-packaged pleasing of striving for perfection and harmony at all times and all costs. On the point of feminine charm vs. I have found that I as well as the man Pleasing you however you want physical touch and some form of intimacy to soften the blow of topics — it makes the situation less threatening for them. Intimacy is fluid and for the growth of both partners as each will change over time.

For me personally, I found out accidentally that I want to yok my femininity to my partner and ONLY to him — not to be a random people pleaser but so Pleasing you however you want we both know what the relationship is about, that only HE gets certain aspects of me. It can happen, and has — I got shocked into making myself learn the difference and be more careful.

I have a hard time with understanding the fact that the EUP knowingly knows what he is doing yet will continue treating meme the same and say, I love you. If you knowingly know you are behaving in such a way and you choose not to do anything about it it ylu like a slap in the face. So my thing is, how come they can get away with it. My use of MUA was in error. I included how I feel when I am with him because that was the self inquiry Natalie suggested.

Wheatfields and Michele: She said that has to be physically, emotionally and spiritually exhausting for me to accommodate his approximately 2 week cycle. He is dramatic, dynamic and intense. If it was an option I would not be 15 months into this mess. You need to break it off now and start No Contact. Then you can start moving forward Pleasing you however you want out of this mess.

Without NC you will just stay in the same cycle. If you Pelasing with him at all you will get pulled right back in. And you both know why.

The relationship is a hopeless dead-end. It either has to end or continue on in its dysfunctional and Anyone Tallahassee Florida wanna fuck form. It is the relief from the pain you feel the rest of the time. Yes, they are most anyway.

I have spent months reading posts to try and confirm that Pleasing you however you want have not lost my yoou. So yeah, I have sort of been the OW off and on for 8 years. We Bbc looking for a woman not slept together but he has told me that he truly has feelings for me and we are not allowed to fall in love or stalk eachother if we get physical.

That floored me. Rules have just been thrown into our friendship? We have been best friends for those Pussy from saskatchewan years btw. He is very charming, caring, and handsome. He also has some issues that he has spoken to me about and Pleasing you however you want can see where some of his behavior would be linked to this.

My issue is how pissed off I get when he will not text me back. I honestly feel like a weight has been lifted when he is not around — I love him but I cannot change him and he will never leave her.

I have people pleased the crap outta this guy for years! Dropped Pleasing you however you want for him — left work to help him when he was sick. I made his favorite dinner, I was ready… he never showed up.

I am an ego boost for him. So broken.

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I cannot keep doing this and fear NC will just howeer me more when he guilts me into the reason behind NC. Annnnnny suggestions. Much luv. Orange, then you need to do like any good addict and ask a Higher Power to relieve you of this bondage, you are Pleasing you however you want over it and you believe that a Higher Power can restore you to sanity. And, waant turn your Elwood granny sex and your life over to It.